WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT FROM ME?

What do you really want from me?

A question that has only been asked in our quest and pursuit for a marital relationship but ignored in friendship.

This question I believe should be asked not just in a marital relationship but in our relationship with people, because it would serve as a yardstick and a measuring system to measure levels of impacts and we not just exerting energy.

Our answers once we are asked, shouldn't be born out of greed and shouldn't be instituted for our personal desire to suite the hearing of the other party involved.  Lately, If I'm being asked I wouldn't find articulate words not because I'm short of words but because I just discovered from - EPH 5:1-2(MSG) that my relationship with christ and the love of christ over me wasn't cautious but it was EXTRAVAGANT. He didn't love me in order to GET something from me (I couldn't have asked; Christ what do You want from me) but to give everything of himself to me.

Jesus whispered to me : LOVE LIKE THAT!!! WOOOoooooW

A relationship instigated by love, marked by giving, not getting. This would make us in our friendship and relationship whole. Our words will evoke our partners beauty that everything we say or do would be designed to bring the best out of your partner, dressing them in dazzling white silk.


What do you REALLY WANT FROM ME? ? 

These lessons are not taught in the four walls of a classroom as my brother Kalu Ifeanyi would say, but in the school Of the Spirit...!!

I choose to Love like that.
I choose to Love to give and not Get.

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POVERTY: YOUR MIND OR YOUR POCKET? 🙎

Once of my most referred teacher ad coach in person of Norman Vincent Peale once said:
 " Empty pockets never held anybody back. But only empty heads and empty hearts can".
Which means empty pocket cannot hold you back but an empty head and an empty heart.

Over 60% of the world population live below standard. Many have accepted it to be fate and reached a conclusion that they are not destined to be rich or rise above poverty.

Poverty as it where is a state of mind. It has nothing to do with what you have or what you don't have, it is only a description of your inability. Unfortunately, many in the world today use the wrong yardstick to estimate and describe the term 'Poverty'.

   The worst description and estimation of poverty is by valuing it by what you have physically or what you don't have. Poverty like I said is a mindset. It would as well interest you to know that the size of your mind determines the size of your pocket.  By the help of the Holy-spirit I have come to understand that there is general law overseen by God, and God alone and not subject to your career, your field of study, your class of degree, or the number of degrees you possess. This general Law is known as the "THE LAW OF MINDSET" and it states that

"The size of your mind is directly proportional to the size of your pocket; for it is the content of your mind that would determine the size of your pocket" .


Therefore, if you want to be rich, you have to be rich first on the inside. But if on the contrary, where you are rich on the outside first, two (2) things are bound to happen;
*You would loose you wealth and ** Your wealth would destroy you. The Holy bible puts it this way, "THE WEALTH OF FOOLS IS THEIR DESTRUCTION".

You therefore need to pay less attention to what you have in your pocket, focus more on enlarging your mind, gathering the right financial knowledge, right information, and in no time it would reflect in your pocket.     When it comes to living in abundance or riches your number one pursuit should not be to make quick physical  cash by any means possible. But your number one pursuit should be first to invest in your Mind.

Money is not the cure for the poverty of the poor. Also charity has never made anyone rich. The cure for poverty is  not to first issue out money  but to feed the mind with the necessary knowledge required for financial freedom. The 3rd world nations receive charity  but it has never made any of them a first world nation. As much as they receive, it has only push them to deeper poverty and deeper debt.  Is Ifeanyi trying to say I should not be involved in Charity? NO !!! What I literally mean is that to put a lasting end to the poverty of the poor , their minds need to be fed and not their stomach. Their minds needs to be properly developed and equipped. The reason why two people would go to the same school in the same country, and yet one becomes rich and the other remains poor is because of their difference in understanding. And when it comes to understanding, the capacity of your mind determines how you understand and proffer solutions to problems. Your mind has an eye. But before it can be opened it must have been fed to a point where it doesn't just 'LOOK' but 'SEES'- For the eyes that look are many but the eyes that see are few.

My most important emphasis is that you as an individual should not pay attention to meeting the immediate seen needs of your pocket but rather  pay greater attention to the unseen need, the size of your mind.

People  exclaim; "I don't have a Job" - The answer is this "You have not developed the required competence"

Your pocket might be empty today, but if your mind is filled up, then You are not poor and neither are you a part of the middle-class!!

  The Holy bible recognizes just two classes of people which are; THE HAVES AND THE HAVES NOT or THE RICH AND THE POOR; there is no such thing as a middle class. Its a mirage. The middle-Class people are "Comfortable and well decorated poor men" -  There is no such thing as a Middle-Class, its a deception.

Your mind being filled has nothing to with obtaining a degree from a university Education system, they are necessary but the best it can offer is an inspiration to learn but never educates you. If you really want to move a person from poverty to abundance and prosperity, do not first give him/her money. This shouldn't be the first approach. Don't fill their pockets when you haven't filled their minds. If not you would push them to greater level of poverty by filling their pockets and leaving their minds empty.

Finally if truly the course of any man is to fight poverty, he should be more concerned about the size of his mind and not the size of his Pocket. SELAH !!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE, even as you advance your mind in year 2019, if not you would be the same person in 5 years as you are today except from the persons you meet and the books you read.



Nwaoloko Ifeanyi.
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ANOINTING: FOR THE CALLED OR THE CHOSEN? 😉

An Icon once said "Nobody is given the assignment to solve every problem but your life is wasted if it doesn't solve any.  Therefore,  carry your own cross and own it."

What then is the anointing; you may ask? 

      In the old testament the oil was used as a symbol of the anointing and when it comes upon a person, it makes the person consecrated unto God, Holy, set apart for His work and service.

                        

  "Like a skilled incense maker, blend these ingredients to make a holy anointing oil. Anoint Aaron and his sons also,  consecrating  them to serve as priests" - Exodus 30:25&30 NLT

It is therefore important that a man sets himself apart from anything dishonourable,  so that he would be a special instrument set apart from the masters use and prepared for every good work - 2Timothy2:21.  

The primary and first purpose of the anointing is to first seperate,  consecrate and prepare you so that you can serve the Lord. The anointing is meant for service. The anointing doesn't come over night but subject to the 'process of time' which only God oversees. It requires seasons of detachment,  purification and letting go of every weight that you may become an honorable vessel in Gods hands.

Every believer has a calling but just a few amongst many others are chosen.  And those that are chosen are the ones that are anointed. There is also a provision for those that are called its called a "Mist"(Which represents a makeup for the anointing; but not the anointing). 

The thin line that seperate the called from the chosen is 'The process of Time' - Where God test you just to purify your motives and intents,  God puts you in a shelf and leaves you there for many years just to check if you would stay or leave.
            
                   "He that put his Hands on the plough and turns back,  is not worthy".  If you want to be worthy then no turning back...!!!

The called and the chosen can be likened to a potential which goes through a series of process before it becomes an end product. The anointing doesn't come on Fresh skin; It comes on scars.!!!

The oil also represents the presence of God upon the carrier which in turn supernaturally empowers the carrier to do what he couldn't do before. God called Abraham at age 75 but fulfilled the promise at age 100 when Abraham had come to the end of himself.  God fulfilled His promise not because of  a disfunction but because Abraham had come to a place of no function.

                   "So as David stood among his brothers,  Samuel took the flask of olive oil he had brought and anointed David with the oil.  And the spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David from that day on " - 1Samuel 16:13

To be anointed is to be "Chosen" and not just called,  for it is what sets you apart for Gods service,  it empowers,  equips and increase you in the calling wherein ye are called. You need to be separated; come to a place of aloneness and then the anointing and power comes upon you to serve.

The proof that You have touched God is the transformation in your life. 

Nwaoloko Ifeanyi A.
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Blessed Beyond Measure1

How do you kill a physical body? Stop it from functioning.

How do you kill the Body of Christ financially? Pile up all
the money in reservoirs and stop it from moving. Satan is a
deceiver. Absolutely nothing he does is a blessing. Proverbs 1:32
confirms this, “The prosperity of fools shall destroy them.” It may
look as if he is blessing, but he always destroys. He always
presents a dead end, no way out. In fact, if you want to discern
between the work of God and the work of Satan, remember:
Satan always tells you there is no way out, but Jesus says, “I am
the way” (John 14:6). If it is doubt, defeat or discouragement, it
is from Satan—ALWAYS.

By believing God and including the needs of the Body of
Christ in your needs, you become an open channel for the things
of God to flow through to others. Everything you have received
from God flowed through Jesus. Did Jesus ever lose anything
by giving it to you? No, He still owns it all. First John 4:17 makes
a startling statement, “…as he is, so are we in this world.” This
does not say as He was or as we are someday going to be; it
says as he is, so are we. In His position at the right hand of
God, Jesus has more than enough to give. Well, we are His joint
heirs, and He is ready to see to it that we have enough to give
(see Philippians 4:10-19).

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